Coaching Sessions

• Scope of Practice: Somatic sex education (SSE) is not psychotherapy or medical treatment.

• Consent & Touch: Any touch occurs only at the client’s request and is solely for the client’s benefit, education, and pleasure. Clients are encouraged to guide touch to ensure it remains beneficial, educational, and pleasurable.

• Medical Disclosure: Clients are responsible for sharing relevant medical conditions and for updating the practitioner about any changes in health status.

• Hygiene Protocols: Appropriate hygiene protocols are used in relation to bodily fluids.

• Practitioner Attire: The practitioner remains clothed for the duration of all sessions.

• Substance Use: Drugs and alcohol are not compatible with somatic sex education. Clients must be sober for sessions.

• Communication & Consent: Clients are encouraged to use empowered voice and choice when communicating desires and boundaries, including NOs.

• Mutual Boundaries: The practitioner’s boundaries, including NOs, are always respected.

• Personal Responsibility: Insights, reflections, and practices offered during sessions are invitations rather than directives. Clients are responsible for their own choices, boundaries, and integration after sessions.

• Confidentiality: Sessions are confidential, except where disclosure is required by law (e.g., imminent harm to self or others).

• Non-Refundable Sessions: All sessions are non-refundable.

• Cancellation & Rescheduling Policy: Cancellations or rescheduling must be made at least 24 hours in advance. Sessions canceled with less than 24 hours’ notice are not eligible for rescheduling or refunds.

This is a thoughtful and valid question. Scripture places clear boundaries around sexuality, wisdom, and healing, and I take those seriously.

This work is not sexual in practice.
Sessions are strictly non-sexual and grounded in education, embodiment, and healing—not arousal or role-playing. I uphold clear professional, ethical, and relational boundaries at all times.

Discernment and accountability matter.
Like any healing work, this requires wisdom. I encourage honesty, accountability, and clear boundaries. If someone is married, it may be appropriate to include or consult their spouse. This work should never replace personal responsibility or spiritual grounding.

My approach is rooted in Christian faith.
Not all somatic or intimacy educators share the same worldview. I teach from the perspective of a Christian woman and welcome questions about my beliefs, values, and approach. Clients are encouraged to filter everything through Scripture and their own relationship with God.

God remains central to healing.
I believe healing ultimately comes from God. I begin sessions in prayer and encourage an integrated approach that may include Scripture, prayer, church community, pastoral care, or Christian counseling alongside somatic work.

Ultimately, discernment is key. This work can be supportive when approached with wisdom, prayer, and alignment with one’s faith

This is an important and understandable concern. Somatic intimacy work for couples can raise questions about touch, boundaries, and the sacredness of marriage.

This work supports the marriage—it does not replace it.
I work with couples together and orient everything toward strengthening their connection. I do not work one-on-one with a husband. My role is facilitator and guide, not participant.

Touch is non-sexual, consensual, and clearly defined.
Any touch used is therapeutic, professional, and non-sexual, with clear agreements and consent established in advance. What is and is not included is always made explicit.

Biblical values and boundaries matter.
Scripture emphasizes honoring the marriage covenant, avoiding impropriety, and acting with wisdom (Hebrews 13:4; 1 Thessalonians 5:22). I take these principles seriously and continually assess boundaries, dynamics, and intent throughout our work together.

The goal is growth between you—not dependence on me.
I point couples back toward one another through guided practices, reflection, and communication. I speak less than you do. The focus is on helping you learn to regulate, connect, and grow together emotionally, physically, and spiritually.

God remains central.
I approach this work prayerfully, with accountability and spiritual mentorship. I encourage couples to integrate this work with prayer, faith, and community support.

Discernment is key. A couple can engage in this work with integrity when it is approached with prayer, clear boundaries, and alignment with their faith and values.

I offer four Pay-What-You-Can “Ask Me Anything” sessions each month, and payment plans are available for intensives. Please indicate your interest in these options using the application. If availability is limited, you will be placed on the waitlist.

This work is trauma-informed because it recognizes that our bodies hold experiences—especially around intimacy, touch, consent, and boundaries. Many people carry trauma in their nervous systems, even if they don’t label it as such. A trauma-informed approach prioritizes safety, choice, and pacing so healing never requires pushing past what your body can tolerate.

In practice, being trauma-informed means:

• Safety comes first. Emotional, physical, and psychological safety guide every session. You are always in control.

• Consent is ongoing. Nothing happens without clear, enthusiastic consent. You can pause, change direction, or stop at any time.

• The nervous system is respected. Practices such as breathwork, grounding, and slow, intentional pacing support regulation rather than overwhelm.

• Your experience is honored. There is no “right” response. Sensations, emotions, and boundaries are met with compassion, not judgment.

• Re-traumatization is avoided. The work is designed to empower and build capacity—not to force catharsis or relive past harm.

Why this matters in intimacy education:
Trauma often lives in the body, not just the mind. Somatic intimacy education supports reconnection in a way that feels safe, present, and choice-based. Whether someone is healing from past experiences or simply wanting a deeper, more embodied connection, a trauma-informed lens ensures the process remains respectful, regulated, and supportive.

Sessions are collaborative, client-led, and grounded in consent. Depending on your goals and intentions, sessions may include a combination of conversation, education, breathwork, movement, and (if requested) guided touch. You choose what we do. Nothing happens that you do not explicitly request or consent to.

Touch is never required, and many practices involve no touch at all.

Sessions may include:

• Conversation and education
  Topics may include consent, communication, desire, boundaries, pleasure, anatomy, or relational dynamics. These discussions are practical and meant to support clearer language and self-awareness.

• Consent and communication practices
  Exercises such as listening turns, desire interviews, or consent frameworks help you practice asking for what you want, setting limits, and staying present in communication.

• Somatic (body-based) awareness practices
  These may include grounding, breathwork, gentle movement, or guided attention to sensation to support nervous system regulation and embodiment.

• Optional guided touch or partnered practices
  If touch is requested, it is slow, intentional, non-sexual, and clearly defined. For couples, this may include guided partnered touch or massage, with me acting as a facilitator—not a participant.

• Rest and integration
  Some sessions focus on rest, comfort, and integration through supported relaxation or reflection.

Throughout every session:

• Consent is ongoing and can be changed at any time

• Boundaries are clearly named and respected

• You can pause, stop, or redirect the session whenever you need

Each session looks different because it’s shaped by you, your body, and your intentions—not a preset agenda.

Sessions are offered in my private space in Wilmington, North Carolina, as well as virtually through Google Meet.

Come dressed in comfortable clothing that feels supportive and easy to move or adjust in.